How to Find a Real Woman

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Recently Facebook has turned into a social therapy filled with posters of love, courage, and inspiration.  Although scrolling through my feed filled with oversized pictures of “words of wisdom” from strangers can get a little annoying, there are times when I find something worth pausing for and reading.  However, this “Real Woman” wisdom has been bothering me the most lately.  Not really sure why.  Perhaps it’s because as I go through learning how to love myself, make better choices, and be more responsible I’ve come to an understanding that there is no such thing as a “Real Woman.” 
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Recognize How The Law of Attraction Works

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Cover of "You Are What You Think"These days more people are on a spiritual, self-aware journey than ever known before.  Personally I have become more aware of things I was oblivious to my first 30 years of life.  For instance, I did not understand how my thoughts worked in the land of self creation and attraction.  I had no idea there is a law to attraction.  No one ever told me my thoughts determine my life (and if they did, I clearly didn’t listen).  I had always known actions are responsible for part of the existence we live.  If you do nothing but sit on a couch watching television, nothing but television will come to you.  If you work hard, wisely, long, and without ceasing, success comes to you.  Good begets good and bad begets bad.  It wasn’t until I began to step out of my norm did I learn the truth about our world.  God created the earth and man.  Man creates the world around him.  But we base our actions on our thoughts which determines our life’s return of interest.

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What’s Your Two Cents Worth to Kobe Bryant’s Million Dollar Divorce Law?

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I dedicate this post to all the men and women pissed at or envious of Vanessa Bryant’s settlement in her recent divorce proceedings from basketball star, Kobe Bryant.  Well, some say she doesn’t deserve it.  Some say she planned to stay with him just so she could get a 75 million dollar settlement.  Some like me, share the feeling of carelessness.  I’m sure Kobe is not as upset as some of the people I see who are openly blasting the future ex for getting, not what she may deserve, but what California law says Kobe owes her.  It’s not Vanessa’s fault Kobe felt he didn’t need a prenuptial agreement.  It’s not her fault California law is what it is (a community property state).  Heck it’s not her fault they live in California.  And I can’t say whose fault it is they are even getting divorced, but I do know from personal experience, relationship issues are never one-sided.  So I’d hate for people to just assume Vanessa sat innocently victimized for 10 years, unless the relationship included abuse.  In that case, I would hope 75 million dollars would not be worth staying in a dangerous marriage. More

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